“The results you achieve will be in direct proportion to the effort you apply” Dennis Waitley

It ain’t what you do it’s the way that you do it
It ain’t what you do it’s the way that you do it
It ain’t what you do it’s the way that you do it
And that’s what gets results

It ain’t what you do it’s the time that you do it
It ain’t what you do it’s the time that you do it
It ain’t what you do it’s the time that you do it
And that’s what gets results

You can try hard don’t mean a thing
Take it easy and then your jive will swing

It ain’t what you do it’s the place that you do it
It ain’t what you do it’s the place that you do it
It ain’t what you do it’s the place that you do it
And that’s what gets results

I thought I was smart but I soon found out
I didn’t know what life was all about
But then I learnt I must confess
That life is like a game of chess

It ain’t what you do it’s the way that you do it
It ain’t what you do it’s the time that you do it
It ain’t what you do it’s the place that you do it
And that’s what gets results


I had no plans at all to write a blog today, with the title/opening quote I actually shuddered at how this piece may come across.

Having already done a video on the weekly energies https://youtu.be/AevlHc-9Qno

Completing my own physiotherapy session for my knees and being on the four of swords I had naively assumed my day would now contain rest!

A lying down of mental to do lists and peace.

In reality it has.

I have no egoic mandatory requirements, I have become a willing, honoured, doula of what is asked of me in each moment as such this is the result!

Sure there is uncertainty, but in this there is a greater drive behind me, beyond any assumptions or outcome.

Alongside that is a trust deeper than any structure I could provide alone.

A need far greater than my own which stretches me out of any comfort I believed I had.

Hello Pisces

I am aware of the new moon as it lands on my son’s 21st birthday Wednesday, but hadnt really felt the need to share anymore about the energies collectively as I stepped back to witness.

It was during my own train-in to strengthen the support system within me however that I received a “school” of thought to forward these words, solely based on what I can offer for any that need to hear.

That’s the thing with Inspiration, it isn’t about the individual, ultimately.

Especially Divine, although I would personally argue is there any other kind if we are all part of the bigger picture.

It comes when it comes.

Much like the delivery of my own masculine all those years ago, in a caravan, during a foot and mouth pandemic!

Ironically on his due date a rare occurrence with only 25 percent of the population appearing when they say they will!

I had thought he was too big.

Had known I wouldn’t get much “change” out of nine pounds and that I would have issues feeding him.

Weighing in at 8 pound thirteen ounces, severely tongue tied I was right.

How did I know this?

Because the moment I connected to the energy of my son, prior to his birth, he began to teach me who I was.

As a mystic, a healer, a Midwife, I agreed to this conscious conception of my inner Pisces

Having been told I would never conceive and that if I did, I would lose what I was trying to create I learnt a swift hard lesson in belief.

In hope.


In my own body, prayers, connection and the impact this had on what and how I delivered.

Easy for a spiritually minded person, right?


I was all about the Science back then, in truth I still am, analysing, discovering and researching everything in life from healing through to Tarot, I want to know what, who, how.

I have always struggled to take things at face value.

Yet this week this is what we are being asked to do.

To connect to what we feel and know, intuitively beyond the restrictive mind.

More importantly to recognise the impact this has on everything we manifest.

I have spent the last few days doing what I do best, facilitating change and delivering potential!

Directed by Great Spirit and Pachamama I have stopped dropped and healed the land, performed “random” ceremonies often whilst in the middle of everyday life to the humour of my husband and “done what I came here to do!”

Collectively we are feeling this right now.

A call to action.

To stand, albeit upside down at times, in who we are and what we bring down to the Earth, Pachakutti in a place that seems topsy turvy.

But what are we actually hearing.

In truth it is going to be different for us all.

Based on our own values, our “image of a nation”

Which we can only perceive from where we are currently.

It is this we are being asked to face right now.

Especially those of us in a more visual space.

To connect to our inner Sacred Masculine actions as Mars, alongside our Divine Feminine reflections in Venus, plunge into what may feel for many the despairing depths of Pluto.

It is here the cliché “we were made for these times” really comes into force.

The change we wish to see can feel a little too big to deliver.

With the help of Jupiter in Pisces expanding everything including our concerns, fears. higher heart and hopes there is a deeper transformation possible.

Including our own view on this!

The end of war as we know it.

Conflict of our own Christ consciousness.

With ourselves, each other and the collective.

A peace pipe dream… perhaps, but if we can use the polarities, we have been desperately trying to avoid for what they are, a reflection of opposition, and bridge between the two… well anything is possible with this upcoming New Moon.

So how do we best navigate the energies.

 By getting to know who we are in the grand scheme of things.

As creators.




Parents of a new world.

Consciously conceiving what is being asked of us now in all we do, even or especially the more mundane processes…aka life.

Reaching out to each other, offering of ourselves where we can, knowing every person has a role.

Recognising all we do is a walking prayer and the sacredness of this, I am personally offering aid through Despacho over the coming months (https://www.facebook.com/events/359058375717757/?acontext=%7B%22event_action_history%22%3A[%7B%22surface%22%3A%22page%22%7D]%7Dhttps://www.facebook.com/events/359058375717757/?acontext=%7B%22event_action_history%22%3A[%7B%22surface%22%3A%22page%22%7D]%7D)

It is one thing to wish for something but another completely to uphold this in who we are, can we reflect back on ourselves?

There is no doubt about it we are entering a new phase from Aquarius into the more potentially positive aspects of the fish if we can see all perspectives and balance that with focus.

To keep our eye on the “ peace” prize.

This can be difficult, emotions are raw, sad, hurt understandably, but this is the birth canal to a light beyond what we have known if we are able to go through it rather than around it.

Here we can recognise the “imperfections” within ourselves with no judgement, open our hearts to a free way of thinking by developing our own spiritual  and emotional relationship.

In short, see who we really are and in that there is great power of the one vision.

Sure connections will come under the spotlight as with every moon phase but it is an opportunity to look at how we now unite the light and dark within ourselves to create something beyond what we have crafted before.

We are being gifted an opportunity to make a start on projects we may have been thinking or longing for, for some time now as we enter a new era but alongside this, we will be asked to observe any trauma or restrictions in regard to this.

Remember the Hanged man chooses to remain tied to his own standstill perception and it is this shadow martyrdom that can blind even the brightest of lights.

Can we release our own objectives, our own desire for things to be the way we wish to see them to truly open our “I” to what is occurring.

I myself am being guided to run more workshops, starting this weekend with a Sound study day to help others regain peace in their everyday life (https://www.facebook.com/events/1624900081197689/?acontext=%7B%22event_action_history%22%3A[%7B%22surface%22%3A%22page%22%7D]%7D)

I have also received inspiration regarding a Tarot course and have produced a workbook for a womb wisdom retreat that whilst it has no place to be held as yet only has two spaces left and isnt until June.

The 6.6 portal to be exact.

It is here I trust in the naked stripping of what once was in relation to who I AM on this Earth.

I may not know all the answers but I can have peace with this vulnerable uncertainty.

In this space I continue to show up and do what I can in each moment as suggested by a Midwife far bigger than myself, which now includes the infamous tik tok platform (https://www.tiktok.com/@soulmidwife) where I ironically follow 33 people and have 33 completely different followers in return

In this I have hope and take any leaps of faiths asked including an incredibly “icky” video offering my services at a time I questioned the tact, which is the ultimate call to action this new moon in Pisces.

To feel into what could be possible, to look at our own energies within this, our own faith in ourselves, each other and the united verse we continue to sing.

To be the answered prayers of others where we can.

To answer the call anyway we are able (https://kirstydignam.co.uk/services-2/) and get over anything that stands in the way of this.

To hold space, witness and hear the cries of Pachamama as she continues to labour the World, we have all prayed for. Knowing it will arrive when ready, it isn’t too big and despite any dis-ease avoid putting our foot in our mouths by tying up our own voice where and when it is needed the most.

2022 was always the “year to do you” may we all realise that this is all that was ever asked of us by the one great mother and in doing so bring forth all of HER hopes and dreams at a time so long prayed for.

In deepest munay



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